out of our hands

Sometimes things in life happen for a reason and it is just out of our hands to take control. You see, it is human nature to take things into our own hands, especially for the people or things we CARE most about and TRY to make the best out of it. For most it is a challenge to learn how to LET THINGS BE and ACCEPT the way things are. It is important for us to UNDERSTAND that it is out of our reach, despite all our EFFORTS that FAILED and has been done. Yes, it is difficult to an EXTREME without trying to CONTROL or MANIPULATE things into our own hands when knowing that things are not going well or are slipping away from us. We just have to realize in life that we cannot control everything. Yes, it is painful to have to learn how to HOLD it in and just HOPE for the best in your heart. We can only do so much before the real truth is revealed, and behind all the painful PATIENCE and HOLDING IN that we have learned will hopefully be well RESPECTED, taken into CONSIDERATION, TAKEN TO ACTION, & make the CHANGES to SHOW that one UNDERSTANDS the other person's FEELINGS. Be strong. We can do it. Have hope in your heart. Just be who you are and be strong to not allow yourself to be influenced by the negative occurrences or changes that you face.